Year 5 – Week 19 – Day 6

If you had not already heard through other channels, Brendan spent four nights in the hospital after I had to take him to the emergency room on Sunday. He tested positive for RSV, and then developed secondary bacterial infections of pseudomonas and moraxella. His diagnosis was “Acute Tracheitis” and he just needed air at 65% oxygen to maintain his saturations. (The air we breathe is about 21%)

I won’t go in to detail about our stay, it was miserable for the whole family. Trevor was not allowed in to the hospital as part of their attempt to control the spread of viruses, RSV in particular. It made our “shift changes” a little more complicated. Brendan had IV antibiotics, chest xrays, nasal swabs, and all kinds of pokes and prods and tests that surely felt like pure torture to him.

Over the weekend, we maintained with breathing treatments, but it just wasn’t enough
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At least the cafeteria has good food.
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Warm towels after a pretty lame sponge bath
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Getting some “work” done, he says
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As far from the bed as he was able to get. We were on the 9th floor with a pretty spectacular view of the city and airport or even the sunrise. He couldn’t look.
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The Child Life Department brought in different toys every day to try to keep him entertained
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He started feeling better pretty quickly once all the meds kicked in. But he was stuck until his oxygen levels went down. Even iPad got boring, he had to find new ways to play and relax.
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We had a great team of doctors that worked hard to get Brendan discharged on Thursday night. They trusted that we could continue to take care of him and that he would get better faster at home. I did not expect to be home before Friday.

Brendan negotiated with all of his might for the most “rewards” for all of the suffering he faced. He could not decide between minecraft legos, an air patroller plane, a color changing Mack truck, or a giant bat cave. He would see commercials and keep changing his mind, so he tried to convince me that he should get them all.
He settled on the bat cave, he pushed hard to go to Walmart on the way home from the hospital. (didn’t happen!)

He got his bat cave this morning.
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He told me about 20 times that he loved it
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Trevor had a tough time with Brendan and I being gone so much. He missed his whole school week last week being sick, but he went his three days this week. Next week is his Spring break!
I was so tickled by how much the boys really missed each other. They were nothing but giggles and wrestling for a while.
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Brendan has a lot of recovering still to do. RSV can cause long term issues and so Brendan started taking Singulair to try to help prevent further swelling and attacks.

I leave you with some selfies taken by Brendan.
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5 thoughts on “Year 5 – Week 19 – Day 6

  1. We are so happy Brendan was able to go home and finish his recovery there, with a brother by his side to help keep him entertained. It is awesome how they love each other. I hope all of you can get and stay well. The flu season is almost over!

  2. This has been sad news, but I hope the time for good news has come, and Brendan is recovering well.
    Positive thoughts and prayers for his quick and lasting recovery.

  3. Good afternoon from the East Coast!! Happy homecoming to Mom and Brendan!!! Being home is the best medicine!!! Just love your batcave Brendan!!! Heartwarming to hear that the boys love being reunited!! May you all continue your journey to wellness!! Hoping also that Brendan avoids any complications from RSV!! Hugs, prayers and love!! 🙂

  4. Poor little guy! He has been a real trooper! Very hard on Trevor too, and you and Bill. Hope and pray that all goes better now that he’s home. Love to all.??

  5. I was so happy to hear you say you were heading home from the hospital…with Brendan! It’s unimaginable how difficult it is for him and your whole family when he is there. I hope this will be the last time for a very long time that he needs to be there.
    I think it’s funny that he knows how to “negotiate” his rewards! 🙂 It’s funny that he tried for an extra reward by pointing out to you that he had an IV!! Pretty clever thinking on his part!
    Love the pictures. He’s so cute even when he’s so sick! I wish I could have been there to help you. It must be hard for Trevor without you and Brendan at home and everyone’s normal routine disrupted.
    Big hugs and get well wishes!
    Love, Gramma xoxoxoxo

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