Week 46 – Day 5

It is early in the evening but I have way too many pictures already so I am getting the blog done so that I can get back to the hospital. The schedule that we have been keeping is rough, but it has been working out very well and I firmly believe that Brendan’s progress is due to the fact that we have been by his side the entire time. If we couldn’t be there, they would have just kept him sedated to keep him safe. They run for the morphine the moment he cries.
So this is the way it works in a cycle.
7:00am – 1:00pm – Bill at hospital, me at home
1:00pm – 8:00pm – Me at hospital, Bill at home
8:00pm – 7:00am – Bill at hospital, me at home
7:00am – 1:00pm – Me at hospital, Bill at home
1:00pm – 8:00pm – Bill at hospital, me at home
8:00pm – 7:00am – Me at hospital, Bill at home
This way we each get half of the daytime with each of the boys and we alternate who has to stay overnight. And Gramma spends the whole day keeping Trevor on his routine so he doesn’t get thrown off! (and spoiling and smothering)

Today I guess his routine included exploring Brendan’s bed while he was away. He was caught, don’t tell Brendan!

He says “This is the one that Brendan like best, you push right here”

Today was special though, Gramma and Trevor headed to the hospital to visit Brendan. This picture looks to me like Trevor is saying “Gramma, can I borrow some money to take Brendan to lunch?”

“Brendan hasn’t seen me in 4 days, do I look cool enough?”

Meanwhile, Brendan tries to take a nap. He normally sleeps on his sides, but the hospital mattresses seem to be made out of steel and brick so it is too firm for him to get comfortable. Sleeping in the bouncy chair almost works well.

Brendan gets smothered too.

Brendan loves to chew on the little saline port for his ventilator circuit.

He is silly

The good news came down today. Brendan had several more good huge poops so the doctors approved food. He starts on 5ml per hour of clear pedialyte to make sure his system can handle it and he will slowly transition to his formula and increase in volume until he is on normal daily feed. Yay!! Brendan!!!!

Brendan thought “clear to eat” meant Daddy’s french fries.

Gramma gets in on smothering Brendan too

Trevor just wants to know what Brendan’s buttons do

Brendan says “They are cool to peel and pull, you can have one too, bro!” (The nurse actually had to give Brendan an extra sticky lead to play with because he would not leave the real one alone!)

Trevor thinks Brendan gets all the cool toys

Brendan says, “This one is cool to try to chomp”

Brendan will be OK, Dr. Trevor is in the house

“Is this thing on?”

It was a very good day full of forward progress. Brendan is off his IV sedation completely and on his home med schedule. His TPN is being weaned as his tube food is added. His IV in his hand is gone, he just has the PICC in his leg. He did 4.5hrs of sprinting today and was awake for more than 6 hours straight.

We want progress to keep moving this way!

Week 46 – Day 4 – Celebrating Excrement!

Brendan had a lot of positives today. He did his 4hr sprint off the vent like he hadn’t missed a beat. And he got extra attention today from the PT and OT techs at the hospital. He loves to play with all the cool new toys they bring. They were so shocked to see Brendan now versus when they saw him last in May!

When I got there this afternoon, I held Brendan for almost 4hrs. We played and talked and moved and watched movies. He gave me some smiles and passed lots of very putrid smelling gas. Brendan’s home nurse came to visit because she missed his cute face too much.
When Bill arrived tonight, we did trach care so that the hospital nurses wouldn’t have to (so that it is done right). We smelled more putrid gas but this time the smell lingered.
We wouldn’t believe it but had to check and sure enough poooooop! And before we could even say “yay! Brendan!” There was more poop, and more poop, and more poop! Two huge diapers full of dark green smelly gross real poop. We all had a good laugh about what a funny thing it is when you get so excited about poop. This is a huge step forward for Brendan’s healing and getting out of the hospital.
It is such a big deal that I took a picture. Haha!

He has to feel better now, although he is still heavily bloated and has a distended belly. I hope that now that things are moving better that he will improve more quickly now.

He played with Daddy a while and then fell asleep. He is on 1/3 of the amount of the Precedex drug for sedation now and he is handling it well.

I am too tired to elaborate about Trevor’s pretty normal day, here are some cute Trevor pictures!

Happy Birthday Great Grandma!

Last weekend, the boys had a little project to make Great Grandma Bobbie a birthday card for her 91st birthday. In honor of her birthday September 6th, we are sharing their artwork!

I made them a palette of “paints” out of rice cereal and different food purees.

They really got in to their painting, although Trevor thought it was lunchtime! He wanted to eat his paper!

Brendan needed a little help to get started, but had a blast smearing the stuff around. Take that speech therapist!

They are quite the little artists! We hope Great Grandma liked it!

Trevor’s masterpiece:

Brendan’s masterpiece: