Mostly Ashley

The last post was all about Kayla. This time it is Ashley’s turn! The day of homecoming, Ashley had an adventure with her dad. They went over to Old School Forest Preserve and did the fitness trail, which means she got to climb stuff and do exercises. They had a good time!

Last Sunday, Ashley participated in her first karate tournament. This was quite an event, held at Harper College down in Palatine area. The gym was sectioned off into 10 small arenas and a check-in area. She was competing with others her age, regardless of belt color. She chose to compete in 2 areas: kata and kihon. Kata are the sequences of karate moves that simulate fighting a group of opponents. It’s like learning a dance, with sequences of steps, kicks, punches, and blocks. She gets judged on the accuracy and speed of all of her movements, along with her form. She likes doing katas, and she has learned several beyond her current belt level. Sadly, her stances are not low enough to the ground yet, and so she did not place in that competition. She did get a great chance to see others do the katas, see what a 1st place kata looked like, and get some advice that will be helpful for her next belt test in November. Kihon is the collection of basic movements used in kata. She was judged again on form, speed, and accuracy for whatever combination of blocks or punches the judges asked for. She placed third in this event and earned a medal! The kids would go against each other 2 at a time. 3 judges would then lift flags for vote for who did best. Winners got back in line, other kid sat down. When it was done, the last two kids were 1st and 2nd place. The rest of the sitters got back in line and repeated the process to get 3rd and 4th. Once she finished, we stayed and watched some higher belt events. The sparring (kumite) events were EXACTLY like Karate Kid, without the soundtrack. =) We even had an overly intense coach, aggressive teen boys fouling each other, and a few face checks to make sure there were no bloody noses.  It was interesting and fun for her to go outside her comfort zone.

As if the week were not already busy, she also had her first band & choir concert of the year on Wednesday. She was playing the flute in her first concert and singing with the choir. I have videos!

Ashley got to introduce the 6th grade band. When she was done, the lady next to me on the bleachers remarked to her family – “That girl looks like she’s 14!”.

The band had 3 numbers, but I only got 2. I was set to film the 3rd, but someone coming into the bleachers knocked my camera around and we were worried about battery life for the choir part. Here are the other two numbers. Ashley is facing away, about 2-3 kids in from the edge of her row (look to the right of the director).


Onto the choir section! They had 4 numbers in all. Ashley is right above the piano player’s head. She got a haircut recently, so she wore her hair down.



This last number featured a few soloists at the beginning. I have my personal favorite among the soloists, who of course far outshines all others. Maybe you can guess which one? =)

Weeks around here have been pretty crazy! Between school, work, karate, doctor appointments, concerts, working at church, volunteering at Save A Pet, we have been running around a lot. Thankfully, Kevin has been here because this has taken all 4 of us working together to make it all happen.

Starting this week, Kevin will be traveling a whole bunch. He goes to New Jersey this week (but just can’t coordinate schedules to see Aunt Letty, boo!) Wed – Fri, then to Seattle next week Wed – Fri, then he has a downtown event Tues-Wed of the week after that, and then he leaves on Monday 11/9 for a week in Las Vegas (for work, but he gets to tack a couple of days on to visit his best friend PJ). I will get to be single parent again for those days! It gives you new respect for the true single parents out there.

What a weekend!

More to come on Ashley’s fun…this is just Kayla for now. Let me get the timeline for this story….

Flash back to 4 months ago…Kayla went to her 8th grade graduation dance with a lot of friends. By the end of the evening, she said that the friends started “pairing off” into little couples, and she was left with one girl friend and one guy friend. That guy was Logan, who she spent a while talking to that night. They got along great.

Now, this past Sunday (one week ago). Our phone rings. Kevin picks it up, and a nervous young man asks if Kayla is available. A few moments later, she is bouncing back into the room to see if she can go to the Grant High School Homecoming dance on Saturday with Logan.  She was SO excited, and we don’t see that in Kayla all that often. So we said yes.

Monday – Kayla and I go shopping right after school because we don’t have or could find a dress for her that would work. We shopped the mall and the usual places (JC Penney’s, Macy’s, Carson’s, even Kohls!) with no luck. Kayla is not quite a juniors fit in clothes, but she is almost too big (and developed) for girl’s sizes. We thought we might head toward Salvation Army, in case a gently used one could be found. That’s when we popped into the Mundelein Burlington Coat Factory. Success! She found a dress she loved, in a girl’s size 16, and it cost $18!!!!!! Sheds glitter everywhere, but that’s fine for a dress that she needs for maybe one night.

Friday – Kayla and I head shoe shopping right after school. We go into Famous Footwear and find a few things but they are uncomfortable. So we look on the clearance rack. And find a pair of pewter/silver shoes with crystal accents that are heels but were comfortable to walk around in. Final cost $26!!!!

Toss in the jewelry from Erin’s wedding and my silver bag from Erin’s wedding, and the complete look cost less than $50. Lucky!!!

She chatted almost every day with Logan. There was a form that needed to be signed by us, Kayla’s principal, and the Grant principal because she was a guest and not a student. Logan’s dad did the driving. He invited her to dinner too!

Here she is all ready to go!

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Check out the shoes and toes!

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And the hair.

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Such a lady…..

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Logan arrived, bearing the gift of a wrist corsage. Awwww…..

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Remember those awkward days….

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He even opened the car door for her….

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They had dinner at Dockers, a little place Kevin and I used to go to when we were dating. They went to the dance, met up with all kinds of friends, and had a great time. They left the dance a little early and met some more friends at a local ice cream shop that stays open late. She got home around 11PM, exhausted and excited and happy.

What makes us the happiest is that no matter what happens in her future, she will always remember her first official date for her first official high school dance as a happy event.

Of course, I told her she can’t have a boyfriend until she is 16, and she agreed completely! =)